5 years and 9 months ago I got the most shocking news any person could get. I saw a positive sign (or maybe it was a smiley face?) on my pregnancy test ;D Somewhere deep down inside I knew what this meant but wrapping my head around the fact that in 9 months time i would give birth to a human being was something all together different. Needless to say, 9 months goes by a lot quicker then one would imagine. Well, 9 months and 2 weeks. She was a stubborn one from the get go
My daughter came into this world at exactly 10 am at the Rockyview Hospital in Calgary, Alberta. I remember the exact time cause I was in labour for 19.5 hours before the doctors had to brake my water and she wasted no time in coming out after that. She looked nothing like me. Not a single feature could i see that resembled my face whatsoever. Chinese eyes, chinese nose, dark chinese hair, and even a dark complexion. (My husband is Chinese therefore making my babies scrambled eggs!) This could not be my child! Gasp! My mother was there and she said she could see something of me in her but all I saw was a Chinese baby. Not until I managed to get some sleep did I see her in a whole new light. She had my eyes! Yes, she had my eyes!! I was sure the more she grew the more she’d start to look like me. I had hoped at least ;D
I never thought to make a cake until her 2nd Birthday. This first cake I ever attempted to make was in the form of a penguin. She had started watching Happy Feet and I figured what better cake then a penguin? I had never made a cake before. I didn’t even bake. It was a learning curve, that’s all i can say about that. Her 4th birthday cake was something all together different. It was the first time I used PVC pipe in a cake and this was definitely a learning curve! Her cake was in the shape of Rapunzel’s tower and it ended up being 32″ high by the time i finished. I didn’t know how i would make her 5th birthday cake any more eye popping and more triumphant then the last one. My daughter is a drama queen, hence the nickname “drAmelie”, and she could not make up her mind for what kind of party she really wanted to have. First it was the little mermaid, then Barbie, then princess and finally flowers. She said lots of flowers. I said done! We went with a Garden Theme Party and did as many flowers and butterflies as I could muster around the house and the cake.
I had found a picture of this cake on Cake Central and I thought it would be perfect for Amelie’s birthday. I tweaked it here and there to make it more suitable for her and the end result was beyond perfect
The kids each got their own worms in dirt gift cups to take home. These were just filled with chocolate pudding topped with Oreo crumbs and candy worms.
The cake itself was a 2 tier chocolate cake with the top tear a Vanilla Buttercream Filling and I made the bottom with a Lemon Curd Filling.
The party had 14 kids all under the age of 6 and the youngest 6 months. Needless to say it was loud, busy and too much fun! All the kids played together and pretty much kept to themselves apart from the odd one running upstairs to use the bathroom or to steal a handful of chips. We even managed to get a little wrestling competition started amongst some of the boys….and of course Amelie!
Amelie turned 5 this May. We celebrated the only way I knew how. With great company, great food and a great cake
This was all done for my daughter. My sweet Amelie. The look on her face when she sees her cake makes my job all worth it. The late nights, the lack of sleep, the experimenting and the constant mess in my kitchen. My kids are why I do what I do and why I love doing it . xoxoxoxo
All photography by Red Diesel Photography.
“My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what I start. So far today, I have finished 2 bags of M&M’s and a chocolate cake. I feel better already.”

























